Probably most of you have never heard of this little boy, or recognize his face, but he is 11 years old, he is in grade five at school, he loves to play soccer, he has a pet turtle, and he is homeless. CBS news interviewed Tristen the other day, and the report was shown last night on CBS news. Here is the text of the whole interview:
"How is life for you?" asked CBS News correspondent Byron Pitts.
"Pretty bad," Tristen said. "Everything has gone down the drain. We don't have enough money to pay, we can't afford food."
At schools teachers describe Tristen as a sweet boy: smart and innocent.
"I feel lucky about my life because right now I'm not really on the street or in a cardboard box," Tristen said.
Instead, he and his mom live in the El Dorado Motel on a busy street in a tough neighborhood in Salinas, Calif. There are 22 other homeless families here.
They landed here after she lost her job in January as a job coach for people with disabilities. That means a cramped space, no car and no health insurance. There's just a bed for her, an air mattress for him, and a plastic bowl for Tristen's turtle. Last week Rhonda's $90 weekly unemployment check stopped.
"I try to save food," Tristen said.
"What do you mean?" Pitts asked.
"If we're going to run out of food I'll only eat a little of it and save it for later," Tristen said.
His grades have dropped - he'll have to repeat 5th grade. His self esteem is falling. And he is often afraid.
"I thought I was going to lose everything yesterday," Tristen said. "I thought we were going to lose everything."
"That scare you because that's a possibility?" Pitts asked.
"Yeah," Tristen said.
"Because you've lost things before?" Pitts asked.
"Yeah, I have," Tristen said.
Behind his Harry Potter face is a child in crisis. With his mother's permission, Pitts and Tristen kept talking.
"Find the words for me," Pitts said.
"Life and death," Tristen said.
"You think about life and death?" Pitts asked. "Why do you think about things like that?"
"Because I gave up," said Tristen, crying.
For the homeless children at the El Dorado Motel, life is often bleak. But there are a few bright spots. Like many school districts across the country, Salinas has a homeless children's advocate. Cheryl Camany helps identify homeless children and provides resources and free supplies.
As for Tristen Clarke, he says he has one real friend - 8-year-old Gus Hernandez, Jr. They're neighbors. Gus is also homeless.
"Me and him share the same life," Tristen said. "He understands me and I understand him."
They also share the same risk. Even a simple game of soccer can be dangerous ... when the ball rolls right into traffic. For their safety, the boys were ordered back to their rooms by the motel owner.
Anger and frustration brews in Gus every day. He lives with both parents and 4-year-old brother. They owned a house until Gus Sr. lost his job as a mortgage loan processor. The bank foreclosed on their home.
"My life is dumb," said Gus Jr. "We have to live in a motel, have to be in at a certain time. Can't play anywhere, and most of my friends are there."
"That must be hard?" asked Pitts.
"Today was a worse day, tomorrow may be better," Gus said.
"That makes you an optimist?" asked Pitts.
"Yeah," Gus said.
Later, Pitts went to talk to Tristen.
"What do you want Americans to know about you, what it means to be a child and homeless in America?" Pitts asked.
"We need people to help," Tristen said.
Children of the recession - for whom childhood has all but past them by.
Where you can offer help if you're able, or receive help if you need it.
I felt heartsick when I saw this little boy being interviewed, and when he cried, I wanted to put my arms around him and give him a hug. This should not be happening.
The other night I watched Donald Trump being interviewed, and he was incensed -- incensed -- because someone had implied that Trump was not a billionaire, only a millionaire, and Trump insisted that he was indeed a billionaire. To me, there was something vaguely obscene about that. Oh, I know, Trump creates wealth, he creates jobs, he pays taxes, and I'm sure he gives to charity. But perhaps at a time like this, with so many folks in such desperate situations, people with excessive wealth can give just a little bit more. As Tristen says, "We need people to help". Out of the mouths of babes... Ever since I watched this news report, I have been thinking, "What can I do to help these people?" There but for the grace of God goes any one of us.
I'll never forget the sight of that little fellow, trying so hard to be brave, but finally breaking down and sobbing into his hands. He's only a little boy. How can this be allowed to happen in some of the wealthiest countries in the world? He lives in Salinas, California, and if there is anyone out there who reads this and can help him, or any other child in distress because of the recession, I think you will have earned your angel wings.
Update: I you want to make a donation to this young fellow, you can do so here:
Salinas City Elementary School District
District Outreach Consultant
840 South Main Street
Salinas, CA 93901
ATTN: Cheryl Camany
Note: Please indicate on the check if you would like your donation to go directly to the Clarke and Hernandez families or to all homeless children identified in the Salinas School District.
To find out where you can make a donation in your area, look here.